Not everyone feels “in the mood” right away… and that’s completely normal.

There’s this widespread idea that sexual desire should just show up out of nowhere, like flipping on a light switch. But for many people, that’s simply not how it works. And when we don’t talk about that openly, it’s easy to internalize the belief that something in us, or in our relationship, is broken.

But what if I told you that your sex drive doesn’t tell the whole story?

One of the most significant hurdles couples face is having mismatched values. When career aspirations, family priorities, financial beliefs, or even spiritual views differ, misunderstandings and conflicts arise that are tough to navigate. Tough, but not hopeless.

Can a marriage survive without sex? It’s not uncommon for marriages to struggle with intimacy, leaving many wondering if it’s a sign that their marriage is in trouble. So, let's explore the complexities of intimacy and see if a sexless marriage is doomed or salvageable.